Time,
fear and procrastination are the culprits.
When faced with a future problem that appears certain,
people should logically act against the chances of
it taking place. But this doesn’t always happen. That’s
why people smoke cigarettes when they know the risks, or
drink to excess when they know they shouldn’t,
or fail to make provision for retirement when they know
they
should. What is it about us that causes illogical present
behaviour when faced with the certainty of negative future
consequences as a result of that behaviour? In Australia we could blame some of our thinking on “She’ll
be right, mate”. In other words, “No worries – it’ll
all come good” (*see story below). This may be
a simple answer, but having spoken to thousands of people
who have faced decisions on their future and have then
either acted or not, we think there are three key reasons
for failing to take decisive action:
1) The false comfort of time
Retirement usually seems a long way away, 10 to 15
years or more. That’s a lot of time. Up to five and half
thousand ‘sleeps’. It’s not pressing,
and its effect is not right now. There’s enough time
for the problem to sort itself out. We’ll save a
bit more. We might inherit some money. The kids will be
out of the house. I’ll get a promotion or work more
overtime and earn more money. In other words, it’s
too far away to worry about right now, and time will
solve the problem. 2) Fear of failure
Big decisions and sacrifices are needed to avoid
future funding problems. However, the bigger the
(future)
problem, the bigger the (present) decision needs to
be. With big
decisions comes risk, and with risk, fear. So our inner
voice warns us and says,
-
I’ll make a mistake – I’ll get
caught out
-
I’ll get ripped off
-
I’ll lose money, when I’m actually
trying to make some
-
I can’t afford it right now – we can’t
come out as it is
- I might lose my job
-
I’ll look a fool if it all goes pear-shaped
-
I’ve read so much about people who have
invested and got it so wrong
-
I’m not a smart investor – this is
not for me
And so a decision is successfully avoided. We are
too scared of making a mistake. We block out the
evidence
that says
we need to do make a positive move, and instead
let fear take over with resulting inaction. 3) Procrastination
This means putting off until tomorrow things that
need to be done today. This is a widespread human
failing.
We learnt at school that, “Procrastination is the thief
of time”. However, time means money, so putting off
decisions means that it is the thief of money as well,
which is why when decisions are put off for too long, it
gets too late, and there’s no money, and no time
left to earn it. So procrastination robs us of both time
and money. It’s the price of indecision.
When these three factors act together, postponing
life-changing decisions seems almost guaranteed.
The solution is
to be aware of these unhelpful thoughts and behaviours
and to
be resolute when all the evidence shows that decisive
action is needed to avert a future problem. Tens
of thousands
have people have already done so. You can too. |